It's been sort of a bittersweet day for lots of reasons. First, is that our little baby boy is growing up. Second, our friends, the Swanson's, had a little girl early this morning who had some lung complications and was flown to Anchorage to the NICU there. She is doing much better, and they are hoping they will be able to bring her home within a week. We are definitely praying for her and her family.
So...I've missed not having family up here a lot today. Sometimes I think it's not fair that all my other nieces and nephews got to have, or will be having birthday parties with our families, and yet here we are pretty much alone. I know we choose to live here, but still, I have a hard time on days like this. It doesn't help that there's a lot going on with most of our good friends. Here's an example; Angela had a baby 6 weeks ago, Darcy just had Maycee who is in Anchorage in the NICU, and Becky is developing toxemia will probably have to go on bed rest and end up taking her baby a couple weeks early too. So...we have opted to not have any birthday parties, like we had originally planned for this weekend. It's easier for everyone and especially all these newborn or yet to be born babies, and their mom's. So...I decided to still make Lachlan's B-day cake, wrap his presents, and try to have a little party with Shayne & I...before Shayne had to go to work tonight.
This morning, Lach already had a b-day card waiting for him when he got up. Shayne had stopped on his way home this morning and got Lach and I (Shayne's just like that to get me a one too) a birthday card. They were those cards that played a song when you opened them. Lachlan LOVED his! Seriously kept playing with it forever. I kept hearing "Sweet Home Alabama" for about an hour. Gotta love a daddy who loves his little boy.
Then, Lach and I went into town and did some birthday shopping. We got him a mylar balloon, which he loves, a couple of books, and a new toy. I also found a fun cake pan and some cake decorating "stuff" to make his basketball b-day cake. I didn't go all out on decorating the cake, I didn't have time. So, I just made due with what I had and what was quick. So, after quickly mixing up the cake, I wrapped his presents while it cooked, and then we opened them up about 5 minutes after I wrapped them. He got some fun things, and he was already enjoying them. You'll be shocked to know Shayne decided his big toy was a little basketball hoop with a basketball. They already started playing while I decorated the cake. I have some pics of that, but they are on the other camera and it's charging so I couldn't post them just yet. Lach wasn't sure what to do with the wrapping paper...mostly just watched me as I unwrapped them. He tried to tear the paper on a couple of presents, but it didn't last long.
I also got the cutest little birthday crown. He actually wore it long enough to sing to him, but that was it, which was perfect for me. However, his reaction to his cake after blowing out the candle was hilarious!
We sang to him, and then after Shayne blew out his candle, Lachlan freaked out! Seriously freaked out. He was trying as hard as he could to get away from his cake, and in the process got frosting all over his arms and chest. I had to get him out of his chair b/c he was shaking and crying so hard. Who knew a cake could be that scary?! Anyway...I ended up covered in orange frosting. Didn't think I needed to worry about my own clothes getting ruined from Lachlan's b-day cake. I had to move the cake away from him, tear off pieces of it to give to him, and every time we would bring the cake close to him, he would freak out again. Seriously...who's scared of their own birthday cake?! He ended up covered in orange frosting, so he took a bath and played with some of his new bath toys.
Overall it was a pretty good b-day. I'm still sad I didn't get to share it with any other family, but that's the way life is sometimes. I think we might go to Anchorage this weekend and have a little party with Kaye & Jared and their little girl Malia. They are our closest friends here in Alaska, and Kaye invited us to come up there for a little party, so I think we'll go have a little celebration with them.
I just have to say...
It is amazing how fast time flies and how much your life can change in a single year. Shayne & I cannot imagine, nor do we want to, what our lives would be like without Lachlan. He has brought so much joy and happiness and contentment and peace into our home. He has been such a good baby, even from day one. He's such a happy boy with a smile that is contagious. He loves to smile at everyone, and is constantly getting comments on what a cute little boy, or sweet little boy he is from strangers we come in contact with. We are grateful every single day Heavenly Father blessed our home with this sweet spirit. Every. Single. Day.
We love you Lachlan, and are looking forward to your next year!!